
Planning a birthday party for your 10-year-old girl can feel a bit daunting—she’s officially in the double digits now! She’s not a little kid anymore, but she’s not quite a tween either, which makes finding the right balance of fun and excitement all the more important.
As a former educator, camp counselor, and parent of a child this age, I know how crucial it is to create a party that feels just right. The trick? Blend classic games and activities with a modern twist to keep everyone engaged and entertained.
If you’re searching for the perfect birthday party ideas for 10 year old girls, look no further. From creative crafts to energetic outdoor games, these 50 fantastic ideas are guaranteed to make her celebration truly memorable!
Boba Tea Party
Boba Tea is all the rage with the tweens these days! From setting up your very own boba tea birthday party, complete with an array of flavors and toppings, to engaging in a boba tasting challenge that tickles your taste buds, we’ve got ideas galore to ensure your bash is bubbling over with excitement. Our roundup of 25 fun Boba Tea Party ideas is the perfect starting point for an unforgettable celebration.
Swiftie Party
Are you ready for it? A Taylor Swift themed birthday party is so much fun! From an Eras-style invitation, to friendship bracelets, to a Milkshake-if-off station, we’ve got the ultimate guide to hosting a party that will be a chart-topping hit for your 10 year old.
Soccer Champion Party
Celebrate like champions with a party inspired by the iconic U.S. Women’s Soccer Team! Deck the space in red, white, and blue with soccer-themed accents and gold touches to honor their many victories. For activities, host a penalty kick content, jersey decorating stations, and team trivia. Snacks can include “Goal” Oreo Pops decorated to make them look like soccer balls, red, white & blue fruit kabobs, and Victory Punch. End the party by watching highlights of the team’s iconic moments or a recent match.
Spa Party
Spa parties are a fantastic way to introduce kids to self-care in a fun and age-appropriate way. Plus, it’s a great opportunity for them to relax and feel special. From DIY bath bombs and manicure stations to delicious snack ideas and thoughtful party favors, we’ve got everything you need to make your spa party a hit.
Wicked Movie Theme Party
Throw a Wicked party inspired by the hit movie! Serve green popcorn and Emerald punch, have guests dress as their favorite character, and apply Oz-themed temporary tattoos. Create themed stations like “Defying Gravity Karaoke,” “Glinda’s Glam Makeover” with sparkly accessories, and “Elphaba’s Potion Lab” for DIY drinks or slime. End the evening with a Wicked watch party to relive the magic together!
Caitlin Clark Basketball Party
Celebrate like a hoops superstar with a party inspired by basketball phenom Caitlin Clark! Decorate with Iowa Hawkeyes colors (or your favorite team) and colorful basketball posters. Activities can include a 3-point content, free throw contest, basketball games like Lightning and HORSE, women’s basketball trivia, and DIY jerseys. Serve basketball cupcakes and “players fuel” like energy bars and Gatorade. Wrap up the party with some women’s basketball highlights, and send guests home with their own water bottle!
Donut Making Party
If you’re hunting for a birthday bash idea that’s a bit outside the box and guarantees a sprinkle of fun (pun totally intended), consider a donut-making party! With colorful kitchenware, the scent of sweet batter, and a bunch of kids donning chef’s hats, my kitchen turned into the sweetest little bakery.
Glow Up Gathering
There’s nothing these kids love more than a trip to Sephora or Ulta. Celebrate with an afternoon full of shopping, sweet treats, and beauty fun! Start at the mall, and let the guests peruse the products and samples in-store, then stop by a Mochinut or sweets shop to enjoy treats and perhaps some boba tea. If there’s a movie theater at the mall, you could treat the guests to a movie. It’s the perfect mix of fun, flavor, and glam!
Paint & Sip Soiree
A Paint & Sip party is not just for adults anymore. Kids can get in on the fun with personal art stations, a Sipping Station with sparkling juices and crafts sodas, and a guided painting session! Designed for young artists aged 9-12, this party theme promises laughter, creativity, and a dash of sophistication they’ll absolutely adore.
Tie Dye Party
A tie-dye party is a chance for kids to let their creative juices flow, and create something beautiful that they can wear and treasure. The best party? Built-in party favors!
Glow Stick Dance Party
Transform your party into an unforgettable glow-in-the-dark dance floor! Hand out glow sticks, bracelets, and necklaces to all the guests, then turn off the lights and crank up their favorite tunes. The glowing colors and energetic beats will create a fun and vibrant atmosphere where everyone can let loose, dance, and have a blast. For an extra touch, add a disco ball or black light to make the glow sticks pop even more!
Mad Scientist’s Lab Party
Bust out your lab coats and plan a science-themed birthday party that will keep all your guests engaged and excited. We’ve got you covered with an epic list of simple science experiments that are perfect for a birthday party. Each experiment can be completed in about 30 minutes, using ingredients you probably already have at home. From DIY Lava Lamps to Vinegar Volcanoes, let’s dive into the list together and pick out the experiments that’ll make your science party a blast.
Movie Night
There’s nothing better than a classic movie night at your birthday party. This can be part of a sleepover or an “undernight” (when the kids get picked up before bedtime). To make it memorable, have everyone lay out their sleeping bags or blankets, pop some popcorn (you can add candy like gummy bears or sprinkles to make it even more special), and turn out all the lights!
Variation: Outdoor Movie Night! Snuggle up on an outdoor blanket and watch a movie outside. There’s something magical about watching a movie under the stars.
Hawaiian Limbo Party
Add a tropical twist to your party with a Hawaiian-themed limbo game! Decorate the space with island-inspired touches like palm leaves, tiki torches, and colorful leis to set the mood. Play cheerful Hawaiian or steel drum music, and use a bamboo stick or a decorated pole as your limbo rod. Guests can test their flexibility and have a blast seeing how low they can go! For extra fun, award prizes for the best limbo champion or most creative moves. It’s the perfect activity for a luau-style celebration! 🌺
Hot Cocoa Bar
Everyone on the guest list will love a hot cocoa bar! This is an especially good idea during the colder months. Buy some hot cocoa, whipped cream, and fun toppings like sprinkles, marshmallows, and chocolate shavings. Everyone will love this sweet and special treat.
Blindfolded Makeup
For this fun activity, split the party guests into groups of two. One person puts on a blindfold. (The birthday girl goes first!) The blindfolded person applies makeup to their partner’s face trying to follow the instructions of their partner. It gets wacky pretty quickly!
Make Your Own Pizzas
Buy individual crust and some sauce for each guest, and then put out some toppings for them to create own pizza.
Photo Booth and Props
If there aren’t photos, did it even happen? A good way to make sure you document sufficiently is by having a photo booth. You can rent a professional photo booth, or you can simply hang a backdrop and add some props for the kids to take silly photos of each other.
Tipi Tents
Tipi tents at sleepover parties are all the rage right now. Local companies usually offer themed tents and everyone gets their own special space to hang out and sleep. Tipi tents will definitely make the party memorable!
Olympic Gold Party
Host an inspiring Olympic Gold Party filled with games and heartwarming moments! Set up fun challenges like relay races or obstacle courses, and end the day by watching an inspirational sports movie, like Young at Heart, the story of the first woman to swim the English Channel. This combination of activity and inspiration will leave everyone feeling like a champion! Send every home with their own gold medal as a party favor.
Mocktail Mixing
Search up some fun and simple mocktail recipes and have the kids make them together, then sample them. You could also choose a signature mocktail for your party and serve it to all the guests.
Karaoke Party
Turn up the fun with a karaoke party where kids can belt out their favorite songs and show off their inner rock stars! Set up a karaoke machine or use a karaoke app, and let the silliness begin. This party idea pairs perfectly with a glow stick dance party for a high-energy vibe, a cozy movie night for wind-down fun, or even a sleepover party (or “undernight”) to keep the good times rolling. Add a touch of flair with themed microphones, a DIY stage, or a backdrop for photo ops!
Twister
Twister is a fun game for this age group, and it’s a sure hit for a birthday party. The game caller shouts out the body part and what color it needs to be placed on. The last person standing wins!
Selfie Museum
Head to a local selfie museum, or bring the magic of a selfie museum right into your home! Set up a few themed “photo stations” with creative backdrops, fun props, and good lighting. You can use streamers, balloons, or even bedsheets to create unique backgrounds, and add accessories like hats, sunglasses, or signs for extra flair. Turn it into a game by giving guests a photo scavenger hunt or awarding prizes for the funniest or most creative selfies. It’s a super fun, DIY way to create memories—and Insta-worthy pics!
Cupcake Wars
Pre-bake some plain cupcakes and let the kids compete with each other for the best-decorated cupcakes, just like in their favorite baking shows! The winning team can earn a baking-themed prize. The best part? It’s built-in party food!
Mad Libs
Mad libs are a really fun way to pass the time at a sleepover. Kids take turns suggesting nouns, adjectives, verbs, and other parts of speech to fill in the blank of a story. The end results is usually pretty hilarious!
Nerf War / Laser Tag
Having a Nerf Birthday Battle is one of the most fun birthday party games you can plan! Gather up all of your Nerf or water blasters that you have around the house, and ask your kid’s friends to bring their own, too.
Roller Skating
The nineties are cool again, and roller skating is making a comeback. Head to your local roller skating rinks for your 10 year old’s next party, and ask if they’ll play your child’s playlist to make it an extra special day. Need some ideas? Here are some trendy dance songs for kids to get the party started.
Truth or Dare
Truth or Dare is a classic party game that’s perfect for breaking the ice and helping everyone get to know each other better. Players take turns asking someone, “Truth or Dare?” If they choose “Truth,” they answer a fun or interesting question honestly. If they pick “Dare,” they have to complete a silly or lighthearted challenge. The possibilities are endless, from funny truths to harmless dares. Need inspiration? Check out this epic list of kid-friendly Truth or Dare questions to get the giggles started!
Would You Rather?
“Would You Rather?” is a hilarious and thought-provoking game that’s sure to spark discussion and laughter at the party. Players pose questions that challenge others to choose between two options—sometimes both are amazing, but it’s even funnier when both are not-so-great! Think, “Would you rather eat only broccoli for a week or never have dessert again?” This game can lead to endless laughs and even a few surprising revelations. Need ideas? Here’s a fantastic list of kid-approved Would You Rather questions for kids to kick things off.
Ice Skating Party
Bundle up and hit the rink for an unforgettable ice skating party! Whether it’s wobbly first steps or graceful glides, everyone will have a blast on the ice. Warm up afterward with hot cocoa and snacks, and hand out cozy socks or mittens as party favors.
Sledding Party
Take advantage of a snowy day with a sledding party that’s all about racing down hills and laughter! Provide sleds or invite guests to bring their own, and keep the energy up with hot chocolate and cookies at the top of the hill. Wrap up the day with a snowman-building contest or a group snowball fight for extra fun.
DIY Pottery Party
Get hands-on and creative with a DIY pottery party that lets everyone unleash their inner artist! Head to a local pottery gallery and after the fun, everyone will have a special keepsake to take home as a reminder of the celebration.
Cosmic Bowling
Find a local bowling alley that offers glow-in-the-dark cosmic bowling for some good old-fashioned fun and fried food. Many bowling alleys also have arcade rooms for an added fun activity.
Classic Board Games
Bust out the board games from the cabinet and make a night of it! Kids this age love games like Monopoly, Taboo, Pictionary, Trivial Pursuit, and more. Just serve up some snacks, put on some music, and let them have some fun together.
Fort Night
No, not the video game. An actual Fort Night. I have yet to meet a child who doesn’t love to build a blanket fort. And a sleepover party is the perfect time to do it. Bust out every blanket and pillow in your house and let you kids have at it!
Piñata (With a Twist!!)
You can buy a piñata at any party store, or even Walmart. The kids will love putting blindfolds on and trying to break it open so that all the candy will fall out! Depending on the number of guests you have attending your party, you may want to get more than one piñata. For some extra fun, add something other than candy to the piñata. It could be fidgets, pop-its, hair ties, etc.
Treasure Hunt or Scavenger Hunt
A scavenger hunt can be adapted for all ages. If you’re feeling motivated, organize a simple treasure hunt or neighborhood scavenger hunt for your birthday party guests. If you have a theme for your party, it’s a good idea to have the scavenger hunt go along with it. For example, if it’s a Harry Potter party, it could be a Marauder’s Map theme.
Backyard Campout
Who says your child’s birthday party has to be complicated? Take it back to simpler times with a backyard campout. Have everyone bring their tent and sleeping bag and campout in the backyard. Bonus points for a campfire, flashlight games like tag, and s’mores. Some children who haven’t slept outside before may get spooked, so chat with parents beforehand.
Charades
Charades is one of those classic party games that will help break the ice and get everyone laughing. To prepare, review the basic instructions with the kids, do an example for them, and write down some of things they could act out.
Pool Party with Hula Hoop Fun
Make a splash with a pool party that brings the fun both in and out of the water! Challenge guests to see who can hula the longest or get creative with tricks, and use hula hoops as floating targets for pool games like diving or tossing balls through them. Serve refreshing treats like popsicles, fruit skewers, and poolside punch. For party favors, you can send guests home with mini hula hoops or fun pool toys.
Two Truths & A Lie
This classic icebreaker never gets old and is surprisingly entertaining—even with close friends and family! It’s a great way to uncover fun facts and hidden surprises about each other while sharing a lot of laughs. Even your besties don’t know everything about you, and that’s what makes this game so exciting.
How to Play:
- Take 1-2 minutes to write down three statements about yourself: two that are true and one that’s a lie.
- Make the lie believable but not too obvious, and try to include true facts that are surprising or unusual to stump the others.
- Each person takes turns reading their three statements, and everyone else guesses which one is the lie.
It’s a simple, fun game that always leads to some hilarious or unexpected revelations!
Water Balloon Party
On a hot summer day, all you need are some water balloons for an epic party. And a classic water balloon fight is just the beginning! Here is an epic list of fun water balloon games you’ll all love. Afterwards, serve some ice cream sundaes or popsicles!
Ninja Bootcamp Obstacle Course
This age group loves a good challenge. Give everyone a bandana to tie around their head. Grab some cones, hula hoops, outdoor blankets, small stools, and any other equipment you could use for outdoor obstacle courses and relay races. You can set it up for them or let them set up their own obstacle course. Time each other running through. Who can pass the finish line fastest? This is a simple, fun way to get active.
Sidewalk Chalk Mural
For a cool-looking geometric chalk mural, place masking tape on the ground, fence, or any surface you are working on your chalk mural. Create geomatric shapes similar to a stained glass window. Color in the shapes. When you lift the tape up, you’ll have a beautiful geometric mural.
Slip n’ Slide n’ Grab
When you can’t have a pool party, a slip n’ slide is the best way to get wet and wild! Better yet, place random objects along the slip n slide. Try to grab them as you slide down! Any 11-year-old boy or girl would love to have a slip n’ slide birthday party.
Talent Show
Bring the spotlight to your next party with a talent show! Let each child showcase their unique abilities, whether it’s playing an instrument, singing, dancing, telling jokes, or even showing off their yo-yo skills. Keep it lighthearted and fun, and consider giving out playful awards for categories like “Most Creative,” “Funniest Act,” or “Best Team Performance” to ensure everyone feels like a star.
Fashion Show
Turn your party into a glamorous fashion event with a DIY fashion show! Let the kids raid closets and mix and match outfits to create their own fabulous looks. Add a theme—like “Hollywood Red Carpet” or “Wacky Wardrobe”—or let them freestyle. Set up a makeshift runway, play some upbeat catwalk music, and let each child strut their stuff while the audience cheers. It’s a perfect way to encourage creativity and confidence!
Decorate t-shirts
Stock up on fabric paint and have the kids bring a plain t-shirt to decorate. Not only will they have fun designing their own wearable creation, they’ll also have a keepsake to remember the party by!
Freeze Dance
Bring a speaker outside and blast your favorite music. When the music stops, everyone freezes! You can also play musical chairs, where everyone has to sit down in a chair when the music stops. Take one chair away each round.
Happy birthday to your amazing 10-year-old! We hope these creative ideas help make their special day unforgettable and filled with joy, laughter, and memories that will last a lifetime. Have a fantastic celebration! 🎉
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