Planning a sleepover for an 11-year-old girl can feel tricky — they’re not little kids anymore, but they still need activities that keep everyone engaged. This updated 2025 guide shares sleepover ideas for 11 year olds that actually work, including games, food activities, creative projects, and low-prep options designed for tweens.
💡If you’re planning a low-key night at home, you’ll also find more ideas in our roundup of at-home activities for kids.
Quick Picks: Best Sleepover Activities for 11 Year Old Girls
- Best icebreaker: Would You Rather
Requires nothing but good questions, and it’s surprisingly engaging even for mixed personalities and energy levels. - Best “wow” factor with minimal setup: Boba Tea Station
Feels trendy and special for this age group, but still simple if you prep toppings ahead of time. - Best creative activity that feels “cool,” not kiddish: Tie-Dye Party
Tweens love the freedom, and everyone leaves with something wearable they’ll actually use after the sleepover. - Best food activity that doubles as entertainment: DIY Pizza Night
Keeps hands busy, avoids picky-eater drama, and naturally breaks the night into a fun transition before games. - Best calm-down option before bedtime: Movie Night + Popcorn Bar
Ideal for winding things down without forcing “lights out” — especially helpful for first-time sleepover guests. - Best high-energy release (before it gets too late): Glow Stick Dance Party
Burns off excitement early and works well even in smaller spaces with the lights dimmed. - Best meaningful keepsake: Decorate Pillowcases
Less messy than t-shirts and surprisingly sentimental — kids often keep and use them long after the party. - Best classic sleepover game Truth or Dare (Tween Edition)
Works best once everyone’s settled in – keep it light and silly to avoid putting shy kids on the spot.
Classic Sleepover Games for 11 Year Olds
These tried-and-true activities are guaranteed to spark laughter and keep the fun rolling all night long!
Truth or Dare (Tween Edition)
This classic game is perfect for breaking the ice and getting everyone giggling. Keep the questions and dares light and age-appropriate to avoid awkward moments – these truth or dare questions for kids are a great place to start.
Would You Rather?
“Would You Rather?” is always a hit! The sillier the options, the more fun it gets – this collection of would you rather questions for kids works especially well for tweens.
Never Have I Ever (For Tweens)
This game works great as an icebreaker and guarantees lots of laughs as friends reveal funny tidbits about themselves. Stick with prompts that are funny and relatable rather than embarrassing — these never have I ever questions for kids are all tween-friendly.
Most Likely To
Most Likely To is an interactive sleepover game that always gets laughs. This game always gets laughs and sparks conversation – try using these most likely to questions for kids to keep it playful.
Twister
This classic game is perfect for this age group! The sillier the poses, the louder the laughter. It’s a great way to add a little physical activity to the mix.
Blindfolded Makeup Challenge
Divide into pairs and let one girl apply makeup to her partner while blindfolded. It’s hilarious to see the results, and it’s always fun to take pictures of the “masterpieces”!
Charades
Write down a mix of movies, pop stars, and everyday items for the girls to act out. This game keeps everyone engaged and is even better with team play.
Mad Libs
Mad Libs are perfect for sleepovers! Let the girls pick silly nouns, verbs, and adjectives to create hilarious stories they can read aloud.
Card Games
Try classic card games like Uno or Go Fish, or introduce them to Peanut Butter (also known as B.S.). You can even challenge them to build the tallest house of cards!
Board Games
Bring out Monopoly, Taboo, or Pictionary for some old-fashioned fun. You can also pick fast-paced games like Spot It! or Headbanz for maximum energy.
Two Truths & A Lie
Let each girl share three statements—two true and one a lie—while everyone else guesses which one isn’t true. It’s an awesome way to get to know each other better!
Freeze Dance
Turn up the music and let the girls dance their hearts out—but when the music stops, they have to freeze! It’s simple, high-energy, and always fun.
Limbo
Grab a pole or broomstick and see how low they can go! Add music for extra fun and turn it into a competition.
Hide & Seek (With a Twist)
Who says Hide & Seek is just for younger kids? Add flashlights to play in the dark, or limit hiding spots to certain rooms for extra challenges.
Name That Tune
This game is perfect for music-loving 11-year-olds and guarantees a mix of excitement and laughs!
How to Play:
- Create a Playlist: Gather a mix of your child’s favorite songs and popular hits that their friends will know. Include a mix of genres and decades for an extra challenge.
- Divide into Teams: Split the kids into two teams to add a fun competitive edge.
- Play Snippets: Play a short clip of each song (5–10 seconds) and have the teams guess the title and artist. Each correct answer earns a point.
Fun Food Ideas for an 11-Year-Old Sleepover
Food isn’t just for snacking—it can be part of the fun! These hands-on food activities will keep 11-year-olds entertained and well-fed while letting their creativity shine.
Make Your Own Pizzas
Set up a DIY pizza station with mini pizza crusts, tomato sauce, shredded cheese, and a variety of toppings like pepperoni, veggies, and pineapple. Let each guest create their own delicious masterpiece before baking them in the oven. This activity is interactive, fun, and tasty!
Baking Cookies
Turn your kitchen into a mini bakery! Provide cookie dough (store-bought or homemade) and a selection of cookie cutters, frosting, and sprinkles. The girls can shape, bake, and decorate their cookies—and enjoy them as a midnight snack.
Cupcake Wars
Pre-bake cupcakes and let the kids compete in a decorating contest. Provide frosting in different colors, sprinkles, and candy toppings. Give awards like “Most Creative,” “Prettiest Design,” or “Silliest Cupcake.” Everyone gets to enjoy their sweet creations afterward!
Boba Tea Station
Tweens love boba tea, and a DIY station is sure to be a hit. Offer options like tea bases (milk tea, fruit tea), syrups, and toppings like tapioca pearls, jelly cubes, or popping boba. Let the kids mix and match to create their perfect drink.
💡If you want to turn this into a themed activity, these boba party ideas for tweens include fun setup tips and flavor combinations.
Smoothie Bar
For a healthy twist, set up a smoothie bar with a variety of fruits, yogurt, juices, and add-ins like honey or chocolate chips. Let the kids blend their custom smoothies—this activity is refreshing and fun.
Paint & Sip
Set up an art station with canvases, paint, and brushes, and serve sparkling fruit juice or fancy sodas for a fun and creative activity. Choose a painting theme or let them freestyle, and play music to set the mood.
Popcorn Bar
Turn movie snacks into an activity with a DIY popcorn station. Offer plain popcorn along with toppings like caramel drizzle, cheese powder, chocolate chips, mini marshmallows, and candy pieces. The kids can create their ultimate popcorn mix!
Hot Cocoa Bar
Perfect for colder months, a hot cocoa station is cozy and customizable. Include hot chocolate, whipped cream, sprinkles, marshmallows, and mix-ins like peppermint sticks or caramel sauce. They’ll love designing their own warm drink.
Ice Cream Sundae Station
Let the kids build their own sundaes with ice cream flavors, sauces, sprinkles, candy, and whipped cream. Add waffle cones for an extra option. This activity doubles as dessert and entertainment!
These fun food ideas are not only delicious but also an easy way to keep everyone involved and happy. Bon appétit!
Creative Sleepover Activities for Tweens
These artsy, hands-on projects will keep 11-year-olds entertained while letting them unleash their creativity. Plus, they’ll leave with cool creations to remember the night!
Decorate T-Shirts
Grab plain white or pastel t-shirts and stock up on fabric paint, markers, stencils, and even iron-on patches. The girls can personalize their shirts with designs, slogans, or even inside jokes. Bonus: It doubles as a memorable keepsake from the party!
Friendship Bracelets
Friendship bracelets never go out of style. Provide colorful embroidery floss, beads, and charms for the girls to create unique bracelets for themselves or their besties. You can even teach them a simple braiding pattern to get started.
Tie-Dye Party
Tie-dye is always a crowd-pleaser! Set up a dyeing station with rubber bands, fabric dye, and plain items like t-shirts, socks, or tote bags. Not only is it super fun, but they’ll love showing off their wearable masterpieces afterward.
To keep things manageable indoors, start with simple designs – these easy tie dye patterns for kids are great for first-timers.
Paint & Sip Mocktails
Turn your living room into a mini art studio! Provide small canvases, brushes, and paints, and let the girls create their own masterpieces. Offer sparkling juice or mocktails in fancy glasses for the ultimate “paint and sip” experience. Choose a theme like sunsets, animals, or abstract art for inspiration.
Matching Pajama Photo Shoot
Matching PJs are a must for a stylish sleepover! Hand out props like sunglasses, hats, or boas, and let the girls strike their best poses in a DIY photo booth. Use fun backdrops like streamers or fairy lights for Instagram-worthy pictures.
DIY Bath Bombs or Lip Gloss
Bring spa vibes to the sleepover with a hands-on activity. Provide easy-to-follow kits or simple ingredients for the girls to make their own:
- Bath Bombs: Combine baking soda, citric acid, and essential oils in molds.
- Lip Gloss: Mix petroleum jelly with food-safe colors and flavors.
They’ll love taking their creations home as party favors!
Spa Party Fun
Set up a relaxing spa station with:
- DIY face masks (think yogurt, honey, and cucumber slices).
- Nail polish for mani-pedis.
- Foot soaks with warm water and essential oils.
Let the girls feel pampered and special—it’s the ultimate chill activity.
For a more relaxed vibe, borrow ideas from these spa party ideas that are easy to do at home with minimal supplies.
Decorate Pillowcases
Provide plain pillowcases and fabric markers or paints so the girls can design their own. Encourage them to write fun quotes, draw patterns, or sign each other’s cases for a sweet keepsake.
DIY Photo Frames
Set up a crafting table with wooden or cardboard photo frames, paint, stickers, and glitter. After the photo shoot, the girls can frame their favorite pictures to take home.
These creative activities aren’t just fun—they’re perfect for keeping the girls engaged while giving them something unique to show off.
Mad Science Experiments
- Conduct simple, fun experiments like making slime or DIY lava lamps for a mad scientist-themed activity.
- Provide white shirts, socks, or tote bags for a colorful tie-dye session.
Sidewalk Chalk Mural
Use masking tape to create geometric designs on the pavement, then color them in with chalk for a beautiful mural.
Cozy & Chill Sleepover Ideas
Movie Night & Popcorn
Lay out sleeping bags or blankets and turn out the lights for a cozy movie night. Add candy or sprinkles to popcorn for a fun treat.
- Variation: Set up an Outdoor Movie Night under the stars for a magical experience.
- Variation 2: Offer a Popcorn Bar with mix-ins like chocolate, caramel drizzle, or cheese powder.
Build a Fort
Use blankets, pillows, and chairs to build the ultimate cozy hangout spot. Perfect for storytelling, games, or just relaxing.
Matching Pajama Photo Shoot
Have everyone wear matching pajamas and set up a DIY photo booth with props for memorable photos.
Fortnite Fort Night
Build blanket forts and let the kids play their favorite video games in their cozy new setup.
Tipi Tents
Rent or set up themed tipi tents for each guest to sleep in. They’ll love the cozy, personalized touch!
High-Energy Sleepover Games
Glow Stick Dance Party
Give everyone glow sticks, turn out the lights, and play their favorite music for a high-energy dance party.
Karaoke Party
Fire up a karaoke machine and let the kids sing their favorite tunes. Pair it with a glow stick dance party for extra fun!
Capture the Flag
Divide into two teams and compete to steal the opposing team’s flag without getting tagged.
Tug of War
Split into two teams and pull the rope to get the other team over the centerline. Variation: Sprinkler Tug of War where the losing team gets soaked!
Backyard Campout
Set up tents and sleeping bags in the yard for a mini camping adventure. Add s’mores, flashlight tag, and stories around a campfire for extra fun.
Flashlight Tag
Play this classic game in the dark with flashlights. Variations include shadow charades and flashlight limbo. Playing in the dark adds to the excitement – these fun flashlight games are perfect for sleepovers once the lights go down.
Ninja Bootcamp Obstacle Course
Use cones, hula hoops, and blankets to create a fun obstacle course. Time each guest to see who finishes fastest.
Water Balloon Games
These are always a hit for warm-weather sleepovers — just plan on towels and a quick clothes change. If you want a few ready-made ideas, these water balloon games keep things fun without getting out of hand.
Flag Football Game
Organize a backyard flag football game. Bonus: Pair it with a football watch party for sports-loving kids.
Balloon Bulls Eye
Attach balloons to a surface and let kids use darts to pop them in a fun aiming game.
Keep It Up
Use balloons to see how long players can keep them in the air. Add team challenges for extra fun.
Giant Jenga
Stack oversized wooden blocks and take turns removing pieces without toppling the tower.
Treasure Hunt or Scavenger Hunt
Plan a themed hunt with clues and hidden treasures. Great for parties with specific themes like pirates or Harry Potter.
Piñata (With a Twist!)
Fill a piñata with candy or small trinkets like fidgets, pop-its, or hair ties for extra variety.
More Sleepover & Tween Party Ideas You’ll Love
Planning more at-home fun or hosting a sleepover as part of a birthday celebration? These related guides can help you plan ahead.
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- Birthday Activities for a 12 Year Old
- Birthday Party Activities for a 13 Year Old
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